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Warning signs- Is your relationship abusive?
Take this quiz to see if your relationship is as healthy as you deserve it to be.
Does my boyfriend or girlfriend:
- Get extremely jealous or possessive?
- Accuse me of flirting or cheating?
- Constantly check up on me or make me check in?
- Tell me how to dress or how much makeup to wear?
- Try to control what I do and who I see?
- Try to keep me from seeing or talking to my family and friends?
- Have big mood swings-- being angry and yelling at me one minute, and the next minute being sweet and apologetic?
- Make me feel nervous or like I'm "walking on eggshells"?
- Put me down or criticize me and make me feel like I can't do anything right or that no one else would want me?
- Threaten to hurt me?
- Threaten to hurt my friends or family?
- Threaten to commit suicide or hurt him or herself because of me?
- Threaten to hurt my pets or destroy my things?
- Yell, grab, push, shove, shake, punch, slap, hold me down, throw things, or hurt me in any way?
- Break things or throw things when we argue?
- Pressure me or force me into having sex or going further than I want?
If you answered YES
to any of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.
The professionals at the Baylor University Counseling Center are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by calling (254) 710-2647.
If you have been physically harmed by another individual, you should call the Baylor University Police Department (254) 710-2222.